Quantum of Solace

Another year has passed, another year has come. 2021 was not a great one for me even though for those who were born on the same year with me, it represent a  significant milestone. "Life begins at 40" they said, but it was also the age and year when I lost two beautiful souls -  my brother and my best friend from this world.  But it was not all bad. The loss has taught me a very valuable lesson ~ most things that we thought matter was only matter when we are still alive. It was a different story at all when we are gone. So, I decided to take a lighter approach in life and try my best not to sweat over little things. It just doesn't worth it. Then I  tried to imagine what it's like when I'm gone.  How will people remember me? M ost importantly how my loved ones will remember me? I gave up the former, because like it or not, most people will only remember you as long as you serve the purpose in their life. Take work for example, even though we spend most of our ti