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08.08.08

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If we happened to be the cast of Friends, (our so-called group consisted of 6 persons- 3 guys and 3 girls), Lin would definitely be our Monica – because she always has her own ways in doing things, and how she wants it to be. I still remember how we always tease her whenever we go out for drinks. After we got our order, Lin would take a sip and more often than not, she will call back the waiter/waitress and asked him/her to ‘modify’ the drink- the way its taste should be. Tau jelah sometimes tempat makan nie sengal sket bab buat air nie, cair sangat, pekat sangat etc . For those who don’t know her you might say that she’s fussy. Well, that’s not true, because she endured the many tasks during our *PA time without being whiny and clingy at all. And that include underwent the rigorous army and bomba training, getting our hands and feet dirty and living in the hygienically-challenged situation during the outdoor modules. So I guess it proves that Lin is not fussy, it’s just that she alwa

Am I intimidating?

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Word of caution: This is a very me-me entry. So please forgive the sense of selfishness through out the entry =) I’m a person with principle. But don’t get me wrong- I’m not implying here that I have strong principle nor what I believe is entirely true-but I do believe in what I think is right/appropriate and hold on to that. However of late I find that sometimes I stick to my principle too strongly that it has made me a rather egoistic person a.k.a. stubborn. And oh yes, I think I got quite a strong instinct too that makes me think that I’m always right (which is of course not true!). So just imagine the consequences having both traits – a super egoistic me. I’m critical especially when it comes to work- perhaps too much that some people might find me intimidating. (No prize of guessing why I’m still single!!). If I don’t agree with something, I feel very uneasy if I don’t speak back. But this only applies for subjects/things that I feel strongly about (thank God!). If I don’t regar